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Christian Thomas Chenard and Eliott Matthew Cherry

A Finished Heart

 Audience Reviews | Clients & Supporters

LETTERS OF REFERENCE
"I hope you will have many more bookings of A Finished Heart as I know first hand what an effective piece of theatre it is." Wil Kilroy, Actor/Director​  [click on names to read letters in full]

"The level of raw emotion shows Eliott's ability to connect with any audience. He shares his experience so completely and without reservation. I felt the audience connect with his honesty" Karen Pierce-Stewart, Executive Director, Cancer Care Center of York County, Maine


"This is a beautiful performance that enriches the experience of living for all ages." Leslie Morrill, Assistant Principal of Edward Little High School, Auburn, Maine explains how A Finished Heart relates to developing emotional intelligence.

"We've received extremely positive feedback ... It is not often that such personal work reverberates with the experiences of so many."  Shelley Cohen Konrad, PhD, Director, Interprofessional Education Collaborative, School of Social Work, University of New England


"In my 35 years as a nurse, nurse practitioner, and educator, I have never experienced any performance that so clearly and eloquently describes the process of living through the death of a loved one."  Patsy Thompson Leavitt, MS, FNP, Executive Director, Leavitt's Mill Free Health Center

"I have to admit that I found myself feeling a bit anxious as the lights dimmed, the music began, and you started to speak. Clearly, it reflected my own discomfort with death and dying. But my anxiety quickly subsided as you drew me and other audience members into your personal world"  Sandra L. Caron, Ph.D., Professor of Family Relations, University of Maine, Orono

"It was a moving and enlightening experience to witness Eliott's performance and a privilege to process and reflect on the meaning of A Finished Heart with the audiences. Eliott's professionalism throughout the event planning and performances, his affinity for his audience, and his candor made the experience of sponsoring A Finished Heart a very special event commemorating the Fifth Anniversary of Vermont's Act 39."
Betsy J. Walkerman, President and Treasurer, Patient Choices Vermont.

"I found Eliott's work to offer insight into the dying process that no training has ever been able to convey.  His willingness to share his story with heart, honesty and integrity is a rare opportunity for learning and deeper understanding of supporting people in grief."  Valerie Jones, LMSW, Program Coordinator, The Center for Grieving Children, Portland, Maine

"It will lead to increased empathy and cultural competency resulting in improved healthcare quality." Timothy J. Richardson MD, VA Maine ​Healthcare System

"Eliott's performance is powerful, rich and raw -- absolutely mesmerizing from start to finish -- and the opportunity for discussion and conversation afterwards was a welcome bonus"  Susan Kocen, Senior Community Coordinator, Q Center, Portland, Oregon

"a real life view of many concepts with which we deal frequently in social work classes: self-determination; loss; love, including same-sex love; relationships; negotiation; death; spirituality; empowerment; self-care; and authenticity."
Sandy Butler, PhD, Professor of Social Work, University of Maine, Orono

"this powerful piece allowed us to learn from a narrative of experience, gave us insights that we might not otherwise uncover and opened important dialogues" Susan B. Sepples RN, CCRN, PhD, Associate Professor, University of Southern Maine School of Nursing

"The performance was intimate, and very moving. Folks in attendance have provided feedback which includes show descriptions such as 'raw', 'honest', 'relevant'" Liz Rodriguez, Co-Chair, Employee Resource Group: Prism, Multnomah County, Oregon

"A Finished Heart will help you to better understand what it means to show up and be present with life, love, and ultimately death." Read more thoughts about A Finished Heart, dying and care from Jana DeCrisofaro, LCSW, Coordinator of Children's Grief Services, The Dougy Center, Portland, Oregon.

Interview with Eliott Cherry and Holly Pruett
MORE AUDIENCE COMMENTS

​"I felt like I was in the room – I felt like I was experiencing some of the same emotions – those raw emotions that are so precious to people who love." Camille Hopkins, Researcher, University of Chicago

​​"opens our hearts to a tenderness and compassion which might well serve to awaken us to a deeper sense of openness and presence, a gripping and soulful performance." Rev. Dr. Glenn H. Turner, Portland, Maine

"Eliott Cherry reveals the most intimate moments of a loving relationship. He shows that in this time of dying there is life lived to the fullest: humor, compassion, dedication, forgiveness, and even anger and frustration. The whole performance is so deeply moving that, at the end, one is inspired simply to sit in silence." Connie Cross, Board President, Allen Avenue Universalist Church, Portland, Maine

"The reality of grief is that it scares us. Grief and the anticipation of grief taps into some of our greatest fears of the unknown. By candidly sharing his experiences as his husband was dying, Eliott Cherry allows all of us to see that we survive and go on to remember when we experience loss. Eliott shows us how love is never extinguished." Jane Mayer, LCSW, Grief and loss psychotherapist, Portland, Oregon

"deeply moving and unforgettable; I was left with a sense of deep reverence for life and for the profound possibilities of being present to love, which  death's encounter invites." Caroline Loupe, Licensed Clinical Counselor, Portland, Maine


"When I was a teen growing up in the 70’s, depth of emotion was hidden and not discussed, because to talk about what you felt was embarrassing and made you feel weak. Those were the times. Teens are fortunate that today’s society is more accepting of emotional expression. Still, teens spend much time 'feeling alone' and at times they may feel that there is 'something wrong' with the depth of their emotions. That is not true. Seeing A Finished Heart ... brought back those teen memories of 'feeling' and not knowing if it was okay. Listening to A Finished Heart made me feel like it was. I think the same may happen with today’s teens."
​Sally Holt, Collaboration/Teen Librarian, Auburn Public Library, Maine

"The story is a universal one that can impact any committed relationship, regardless of orientation. It is one of love and compassion and commitment, getting to the absolute essence of what it means to be committed to love. I do not believe that anyone experiencing your play can fail to experience both the despair and the triumph of love."  Ron Braithwaite, Portland, Oregon

"I've had more than 70 hours of grief training, serve as a Hospice volunteer and am a student at USM's MS/NP options program. Even with many hours of training under one's belt, there is still a lot to learn with regard to individual perspectives. It was outstanding, truly excellent." Theresa Roelke, Maine

"Strong material ... I found myself being cracked open as I listened ... Not just sitting outside, looking in, but rather sitting right next to you. Death is very sacred and personal, without rules or logic. You conveyed the intangible of intimacy in your lives so beautifully in this performance."  Mary Jo Carlsen, Musician, Music Educator, Maine

"a deft combination of prose, poetry and music ... a highly personal story of the emotional life of a relationship told through the prism of a great trial ... a testament to both [Eliott Cherry's] skills as a performer and to the material ... that I didn't even want to end."  Jon Poupore, Musician, Maine

"This was an amazing piece that seemed more like an intense 20-30 minutes rather than the hour+ it actually was. Eliott segued smoothly from humor to sadness, and from narration to re-enactment of some of the last conversations he had with his dying husband. The music he composed for it was perfect for the piece."  Bill Barnert, Cambridge Men's Group, Massachusetts

"As someone who had also been widowed, I resonated with A Finished Heart. ... I much appreciated the craft of this piece. It is filled with details that draw the audience into the inherent drama of the story. ... full of emotion without being sentimental, full of the personal without losing its universal appeal. A Finished Heart is a view from the inside. There were moments when I first saw the piece during which I wanted to rush out of the hall, get away from its intensity, but I also wanted to experience its power to draw my own sorrow out of me."​​ Denis Ledoux, Author, Director of Soleil Lifestory Network, Maine
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"I attended the peformance of A Finished Heart on Sunday, May 25, 2014 at the Unitarian Church in downtown Portland [Oregon]. As a hospice chaplain, I was eager to hear Eliott's story. I sat in the front row so I could see and hear plainly. Not long after I was seated, a woman whom I did not know asked if anyone was sitting next to me. I said, 'no, but you are more than welcome.' We introduced ourselves by name and had a brief exchange before the performance got under way.

From the start of seeing and hearing Eliott, I was drawn into the power and beauty of this incredible story of love and companionship, and the truth-telling of journeying together through life, into death, and more life. My heart was broken open to those deeper places within me that long for connection, reconciliation, and belonging. I was moved with gratitude and wonder.

After the performance ended, we were invited to enter into a short time of silence for reflection and contemplation. I felt moved to touch the woman next to me, so I reached out and placed my hand on her knee not knowing how she would respond. She in turn, took my hand in hers. In the silence, we held on to one another. The movement and power of Eliott's performance created an unspoken bond between us that was both profound and ordinary.

Thank you, Eliott, for creating space within my heart and the hearts of many to give and receive love in ways unimagined. I know for certain that I will show up again for A Finished Heart." Mary Elizabeth Peterson, Portland, Oregon


"You could taste it in some moments and smell it in some moments, and then, I loved the humor ... it helps the audience stay with you ... it bubbles a little bit, it was lovely and you can really see in those moments of laughter, the love. " Anonymous audience remark during post-performance discussion

ADDITIONAL AUDIENCE COMMENTS: FROM SURVEY FORMS
 
  • This was a wonderful experience for me and my friends ... I hope my boyfriend and I stay together and be as happy as you two were.
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  • Most touching, loved it. Entertaining, I had tears, smiles, laughter, and calm — loved it. I could feel your love for Chris in every word.
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  • Your story was very touching and should continue to be told. I love how courageous you are. You are truly inspirational. Thank you!
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  • I am exhausted. A wonderful experience.
 
  • The performance meant a lot to me, since I have a really hard time dealing with the death of people close to me. Hearing this performance really helped me get an understanding of the grieving process.
 
  • The performance meant (in my opinion) that, getting over the grief that seems to swallow your soul, is a lot harder, but, you can get through it. The [discussion] experience was really cool. I thought that the questions were very emotional. It let me relate to the people and the story better.
 
  • The experience of a discussion afterwards allowed me to process the entire performance. It gave me insight to how other people were feeling and made me realize that I was not alone in the feelings I was having.
 
  • The performance was very heartfelt and inspirational to me. The [discussion] experience was one of a kind and extremely helpful in learning how some people cope with the loss of a significant other, and the step that they take before losing them.
 
  • The story itself was beautiful. I found myself crying most of the time. The story showed true love and how difficult it is letting them go, but helping them leave can also be a reward. I thought the piano added a touch of surrealism and the light truly brought a piece of Chris into the room. I loved the performance and would love to see it again. The post-performance discussion was very enlightening. We got to hear others and some of their stories and how to cope a different way with death.
 
  • The performance was amazing. I loved it. It was so heart felt. I got chills so many times during it! It was very moving and I was happy to have been able to watch it. I have never seen anything like it before and I am so happy that you are able to perform it.
 
  • [The discussion] brought back a lot of feelings for me of when I lost my great, great grandfather. It was really hard when I lost him. Talking about it more I got really to understand more about how other people are affected by similar things. When we were talking I started to share but it really got me teary eyed thinking about what it was like when he passed.
 
  • It meant a lot to me. It really showed me how brave someone can be to share something so personal with people he doesn't even know.
 
  • The story and performance was very emotional. it made me think of how things are for other people and how people only think about themselves. [The discussion] was very heavy and in depth. I really enjoyed his openness and [being] willing to talk about one of the hardest things he went through and telling us that it was part of his coping ... to share his story with others.
 
  • It was an amazing performance and I was really moved by this, I don't know how I could handle a thing like that. It was nice asking questions on how you felt and how you got through this.
 
  • It meant a lot to me, I could relate in many ways to your story. How real you were about it. It made it seem you were actually talking to your husband.

QUICK RESPONSES

  • "It moved me beyond belief."
  • ​"It needs to be available to more people."
  • "Insights into a marriage."
  • "I felt connected to the 'Characters' and their bravery."
  • "I hung on every word Chris said and I appreciated Eliott sharing the realness of the wisdom and peace interspersed with grief."
  • "I learned from the honesty of the script."
  • "It gives me confidence for what's to come."
  • "I viewed it as an outpouring of love and a way of using grief/mourning in a meaningful way."
  • "Music, poetry really allowed me to enter in more fully."
  • "Amazingly helpful in naming my own experience."
  • "How hard it is to support someone dying."
  • "Reminds me of intimacy I don't experience in my life."
  • "Good to put a spotlight on death."
  • "Complexity and unpredictability of dying experience."
  • "Another understanding about the last moments of life."
  • "Helped me access feelings for my children who will be with me as I am old and die."
  • "It opened up a space where I could consider and reflect on life's   powerful challenges while also seeing the strength, grace and beauty of being in those challenges.​
I'm grateful for the following comments written on the back of a beautiful poster for the Vermont performances in May, 2018, presented to me as a memento by Patient Choices board president, Betsy Walkerman:
  • To Eliott -- With deep gratitude for your heartfelt performances and all of your energy and commitment. Thanks very much from the Patient Choices Vermont Board.
  • What a powerful piece, your poetry, your love, the humility of life, and of death.
  • Thank you, Eliott, that was an awesome performance. Both here and at home. Thanks for sharing with us.
  • Eliott, with so much appreciation for you sharing your story so profoundly and provoking such rich discussion. A pleasure to spend time with you.
  • Many thanks for sharing/expressing your heart and soul with us -- it was very moving powerful and real. So courageous to bring these conversations to everyday ears.
  • Eliott -- the poetry of your piece is truly perfect -- and my feeling of passed beloveds being with me, within and around me was impeccably expressed by you -- brilliant, and so much love in you.
  • Eliott - this was an incredible show -- I wish I could see it again. Thank you so much!
  • To Eliott -- Thanks so much for bringing your powerful story to Randolph. You've woven your two lives into a beautiful tapestry that I'll carry with me for a long time.
  • Thank you for sharing your hearts and love.
  • Thank you for your incredible gift -- and my joy of being present more than once! I'm so deeply grateful for the intensity and the sensitivity. All good wishes for what lies ahead!
  • To Eliott & Chris: The courage to live and die together and the courage to create together are immortalized in A Finished Heart! It has been a privilege to work with you in bringing your story to Vermont.
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Past or Current
​Clients and Supporters
(Partial List)

AARP Oregon sponsored a performance in Portland of Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart in 2015, honoring National Family Caregivers Month
Eliott Cherry received in 2016 a grant from the Regional Arts & Culture Council of Portland, Oregon to further the public visibility of A Finished Heart
The Multnomah County Family Caregiver Support Program teamed up with Oregon AARP to present Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart in 2015.
North Portland Neighborhood Services in conjunction with City of Portland provided a grant to Hollywood Senior Center to present Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart in 2017.
SE Uplift Neighborhood Coalition in conjunction with City of Portland funded a performance of Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart in 2017.
Compassion & Choices funded a performance of Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart at Hillsboro Library in 2016.
Compassion & Choices
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A performance of Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart at Auburn Public Library was presented in 2013 for students at Edward Little High School and the general public. Funded in part by a grant from the Maine Arts Commission, an independent state agency supported by the National Endowment for the Arts and the Maine Humanities Council, a private non-profit organization affiliated with the National Endowment for the Humanities. Co-sponsorsed by Auburn Public Library, Beacon Hospice, Edward Little High School, and L/A Arts.
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A performance of Eliott Cherry's A Finished Heart at Auburn Public Library was presented in 2013 for students at Edward Little High School and the general public. Funded in part by a grant from the Maine Arts Commission, an independent state agency supported by the National Endowment for the Arts and the Maine Humanities Council, a private non-profit organization affiliated with the National Endowment for the Humanities. Co-sponsorsed by Auburn Public Library, Beacon Hospice, Edward Little High School, and L/A Arts. In 2012, A Finished Heart was presented at University  of New England, Portland, Maine, Made possible by a grant from the Maine Humanities Council. Co-sponsored by Cancer Community Center, The Center for Grieving Children, Hospice of Southern Maine, and University of New England/IPEC.
JSL Foundation

 American Association of Critical Care Nurses

Simmons College Graduate Program in Primary Health Care Nursing, Boston


Chatauqua-by-the-Sea,
Ocean Park, Maine

University of New England

University of Maine

University of
Southern Maine

Cancer Community Center, Portland, Maine

Carol Ayres


Susan Fife Davis

Center for Grieving Children, Portland, Maine

Hospice of Southern Maine

Cancer Care Center
of York County, Maine

Holocaust & Human Rights Center of Maine, 

L/A Arts, Lewiston, ME

Beacon Hospice,
Auburn, Maine

Edward Little High School, Auburn, Maine


Auburn Public Library, Maine

​PDX Death Cafe

Death Talk Project​​

​A Finished Heart has been presented  as clinical continuing education approved by the National Association of Social Work (NASW)

ILGA Portugal
Lisboa / Lisbon

A Finished Heart and post-performance discussions are intended as theatrical, educational and community-building experiences. They do not constitute therapy, or medical or psychological services of any kind. Always seek appropriate professional services as needed.

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